May mga panahon na di gaano natin alam kung ano dapat isipin. Dahil medyo lito tayo, sasabihin natin bigla na "Lord, bigyan mo naman ako ng sign." Pero kung minsan, alam naman talaga natin kung anong gusto natin at madalas, humihingi tayo ng mga dahilan upang mapanindigan kung ano yung gusto natin.

Minsan ba naisip mo na nakakalito yung mga signs na binibigay sa'yo ng Diyos? May mga panahon na tila ba pabago-bago ang sinasabi sa'yo? Nakakalito nga ba or sadyang ikaw lang ang nagpapalito sa sarili mo?

May mga pangyayari sa buhay na di na kailangan pang hingan ng sign galing sa Diyos. Minsan kasi masyado lang tayong bulag o nagbubulag-bulagan sa kung ano talagang nangyayari sa buhay natin. Hindi pa tayo handang tanggapin na ito na talaga. Ito na, teh! Tama na siguro. Haha.

Ok naman sana eh pero parang hindi. Pwede na sana pero hindi parin eh. Eh anong problema? Hindi ko din alam. Kaya tama na.

Laging sinasabing maiksi lang ang buhay at lumilipas ang panahon. Ganoon talaga. Matuto ka. Kung hindi ngayon, hindi bukas, baka next year? Haha. Di nga. Malay mo, di lang talaga meant to be. :)

I wonder if there is ever an easy way of saying goodbye. I wonder if people will ever get better at it either. Does the fewer number of days or memories you spend with a person supposed to make goodbyes easier? Will it be easier to just leave it all behind without a word?

They say maybe things aren't just made to work out the way you wish it would. Then was it made to hurt you instead? No one can ever tell if things will work out in the first place because sometimes, you just have to take the step forward, take the risk and come what may. Is it considered a reckless move? Should you think more the next time? I don't think one could ever know if things will be worth it. And most times, it's a personal decision to make it work anyway.

They say nothing is wrong with you. What went wrong then? Situations in our lives tend to make us think sometimes. There are moments when you feel like you've done something to trigger that one thing that messed up everything. Most times, you feel like it's just meant to go wrong. It's not fair to blame yourself because there's really no one to blame.

They say you've done your part. Have I? Have you? Is that supposed to make us feel any better then? There comes a time when you just stop and then wonder if you could have done something differently. If you did, will it make a difference? You just have to do your part sometimes. Trust me, it will save you from regrets.

They say people come and go. Yeah, I know. But the memories remain even after the people have gone. This just says it all.

Then lastly, they say things will get better. And you should know better because it will always get better. You will feel better when you decide for yourself that you will feel better. No matter what they tell you, no matter how much encouragement they give you, you still get to decide.

Decide to be better and feel better. I'm not saying now, this instant. Slowly, take your time. You owe it to yourself.

1. Others can only give you words and things; only you can give yourself feelings.
2. The only time a friend should make you cry is because you're so overwhelmed with how greatly they appreciated you.
3. Not every friendship with a boy is going to turn out romantic. It's okay to have platonic relationships.
4. You are growing and changing every second. You are not the same person you were five minutes ago. Embrace the growth and change the world.
5. It's okay to eliminate toxic things and toxic people. You are too important to hold onto things that don't help you improve.
6. Never, never leave a friend for a stupid boy who won't remember your name in three months.
7. Just because you hate them, doesn't mean that everyone else will too.
8. Don't get mad at someone for not understanding how you feel, when you don't tell them how you feel.
9. You can't control what people will say to you, but you can control how you react to them.
10. You are not your struggles. You are not your emotional breakdowns. You are not your past.
11. Always keep your head high. No matter how bad your hair looks. No matter if you're wearing dirty sweatpants. Hold your head up as if you are the hottest person in town. Because you are.
12. Don't be realistic. Be passionate. Be unpredictable. Be beautiful. Be courageous. Be excitable. Be yourself. Just please be anything but realistic.
13. Please, please don't put your everything into another human being because it will not be good for either of you.
14. Never be ashamed of past decisions and past relationships and past experiences, because what makes you upset now, once made you happy.
15. You are so much more than just pretty. You were not made to be pretty. You were made to decorate the earth with your soul and scream your name at the top of your lungs until there is no way that they can forget about you. So, don't let anyone simplify you to just pretty.